Vilja's romance simply wont start

[maramsp]

Hey all,

Sorry to make another topic for this, but all the solutions i found by googling the problem wont work.

Vilja has now asked me twice if her accent is a problem for me, and also twice if i regret letting her stay in skyrim. The last time she told me one of this, was if her accent was a problem for me. 

When she did that i was in the wildernis but i traveled to Solitude at first, and was waiting in the blue palace for almost a week, while every 24 hours i was waiting 40 real life second to let vilja update, but no thing about the nightmare, or the question again of letting her stay in skyrim, nor the question of regretting letting her stay with me.

I also, at the previous encounters, could not tell her that shes more then a friend to me, nor has she said to me: wouldnt it be nice to talk a little you and i.

I then tried to option of summoning that woman to the bannered mere (beata if i call correctly out of my head) and told beata that i told vilja that i love her, but that shes uncertain about her feelings.

Then i waited a couple of days again, and still waiting 40 real life seconds to let vilja update, every 24 hours, but still no luck.

I presume this romance would come in quest form, so is there any way to get this quest started?

I once searched for dresses for my own character, and found a wedding dress. When i did add that to myself, i immediately got a quest for vilja, saying giving the dress to her to start marriage.

I then reloaded a previous save, since back then when it happened, i barely knew vilja, and wanted to do her quests. But now i am at the point of what i said earlier.

There is a way to start quests with the console, but sometimes that wont work too, but if someone could give me the quest id, i can try forcing starting the quest through the console.

But if there is another way to start it, then that would be better i think.

Also, i thought that she wont told me her feelings, because i thought i was married.

So i downloaded the divorce mod, which places a statue in the temple of Mara in Riften, and i go'd to riften, and made sure i was not in a relation with anyone.

I really, really hope that someone can help me, since i only want to marry Vilja, and no one else.

One last thing tho. My character is also female.. I really hope that she can marry vilja, and not that vilja only want to marry persons from the other sexe..

Thanks in advance for helping me.

If the romance thing in the meantime do starts however, i will update this post, with the notice that the problem is solved. Untill then i really hope you all can help me.

Greetings and cheers from Mara

[maramsp]

Update,

I just had completed the donkey tail quest, and while in riverwood i simply waited 24 hours and then after that i thought, maybe the time that vilja gives the next quest would be between 5 and 10 in the evening.
So i waited untill 730pm and talked to her again, and the first thing she said to me was, wouldnt it be nice to talk a little you and i.

Then afterwards she told me of her nightmares.

So for now, i think its all settled

[Sniffles]

Certain times, certain places. Vilja goes at her own pace.

[CollinMacleod]

Yep, the Nightmare Dream is the trigger... You are golden.

[btog46]

"I just had completed the donkey tail quest"


The donkey tail quest is the final link in the chain, in all the times I've played, the start of the marriage quest never triggered until that one was completed, in some games I'd deliberately put off completing that quest and leave it on hold if there were other things I wanted to complete before starting the wedding quest.