Vilja missing dialogue options

[jeffers]

Hi, I started a new character just to play along with the latest version of Vilja and things had been going very well. 
We've done her quest and a fair bit of adventuring. She's told me lot's of her life story and gotten as far as saying she loves me. However, I seem to have a problem with her dialogue at the moment, which I suspect is preventing us getting any further with our relationship. When I speak to her I don't get the "Would you please do me a favour" option, so I can't get her to play music or read books etc. Also, and possibly more importantly, under the "Let's just talk" option I don't get the option "How are you're skills progressing?" So I can't check her disposition, which is important in triggering the next step in our romance. 
I've checked with a game save of a different character, and they are OK, so it's not a generic game issue, just something with my particular character. 
I've tried a Vilja reset spell to no avail. Perhaps it's a quest stage problem? 
Any help would be most welcome, as I really would like to get through the whole new Vilja relationship.

Cheers, Jeff

[Emma]

No, it's not a quest stage problem, and it's not a generic game issue. There are no conditions in the Vilja mod that could prevent the main topic "Would you please do me a favour" from showing up. "How are your skills progressing" is a topic that should be both available in the "Let's just talk for a while" topic and in the "Travel together" topic. There is nothing that could prevent it from showing up, either. So I find this very confusing.

Wait! I see that one requirement for both of these is relationshiprank >= 1. You get this rank automatically when you start the quest for Vilja, so this is not the problem.

BUT! If you are using an older version of a certain spell-mod, there is a spell that creates clones of npcs. This is bugged and will remove every faction and relationshiprank from the npcs. It has later been corrected but if you are using this mod and have made a clone of Vilja, then you'd better revert to a save Before this happened, because there is no good way to restore what you have lost.

[jeffers]

Nope, not using any spell mods....my guy's a stealthy archer, doesn't do that magic stuff!

But... as I'm on PC, I tried the setrelationshiprank console command, setting it to 1, and that seems to have fixed it. I've got the dialogue options back, hopefully the rest of the relationship will progress too!

No idea what went wrong, though.....

[Emma]

Please check her disposition. I fear it might be -4, and if it is, something has kicked her out of every faction she is supposed to be in. It's really peculiar that her relationshiprank is less than 1!

[jeffers]

Her disposition is fine, it's 100. So I'll just persevere at chatting with her until she's ready to move the relationship on.

BTW, I've started a new game of Oblivion to see what Vilja's like in that game too.